your opinion wanted

[balmofgilead]

If you are a person who has breasts AND roommates who presumably like breasts but are not your spouse, partner, bang buddy, or some combination of the aforementioned, do you walk around in your pajamas without a bra?  Why/why not? 

Also, "current music:" song [link to an mp3 for youuuu to have as your very own] is funny, and even more so (to me) because my mother is the one who introduced me to it. 

Comments

[balmofgilead.livejournal.com]

In one situation (not a roommate, just person staying in the same place) I worried that I was sending out a message of interest/flirtation. (If walking around sans bra in pajamas isn't standard--and I don't really know--, I'd think that doing so might be somewhat flirty.)

I think cups are a little different since men don't wear them all the time or wear them to be less alluring.

[wlotus.livejournal.com]

I think cups are a little different since men don't wear them all the time or wear them to be less alluring.

And that's the main problem I have: they shouldn't be different. Whether or not a man wears a cup is his own business. Likewise, whether or not a woman wears a bra is her own business. I am troubled by the assumption that a woman's dress is anyone's business but her own.

If a man around me believed I was being "alluring" by not wearing a bra in my own home, I would let him know his assumption was the issue, not my choice of clothing. I can guarantee that would be his attitude, if I commented on his junk flapping freely in his pants instead of being contained by a cup. :-)